Calling: The Details

‘It’s not the men in my life, it’s the life in my men’
- Mae West, actress

The first time you try phone sex it can be a little bit scary. Lots of questions and fears flow through your mind. Don’t worry, it’s not difficult, and once you get in to it you’ll just love it!

How does it work?
There are two main types of service. The most popular is where you listen to a menu, and hear messages recorded by the girls to tempt you to talk to them. These services are great, as you get to pick the type of girl you want to talk to. These girls tend to be home based. Other services you don’t get to choose, and you are connected directly to a girl.
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How can I get the most out of a phone sex call?
Get prepared, get yourself nice and horny before you call, and have a few fantasies available. Perhaps think of what you’d like the girl to wear, and in your fantasy what you would like to do. So, get horny before you call, maybe look at some sexy pictures, read some erotic fiction (you’ll find both on the Telephone Sexy website www.telephonesexy.co.uk), and generally get in the right frame of mind, so you will be more easily turned on by the phone call.
Then, instead of spending time (and money!) on getting turned on whilst actually on the call, you can use the time to really enjoy it, really get into it and really get off!
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I’m shy; can I just listen?
Of course, just be nice to the girl, and tell her you’d just like to listen while she tells you what she’d like to do to you / what she did with her boyfriend that morning / whatever your fantasy is.
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I’m not shy; can I talk lots?
Some guys find it a huge turn on to tell someone a fantasy, to ‘drive’ and do all the talking, if that’s what floats your boat, then go right ahead!
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I have a fetish for X, who do I call about that?
There are many different fetish lines. But mainly, if you ask any phone sex operator about a fetish, she’ll indulge you. Well, as long as it’s legal.
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What might be said on a typical phone sex call?
Anything and everything! At the end of this guide there is an example of a real call to demonstrate what might go on.
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Am I guaranteed to have a good time?
It can’t be guaranteed you’ll have a good time, but, if you are open minded and have a good imagination then the girls are professionals, so you’ll probably be perfectly satisfied.
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What happens when I’ve finished?
You have a couple of options, just hang up, grab a tissue and wind down. Or you can thank the girl, round up the call and say good-bye.
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I want to speak to a girl I had a great time with again, how can I do that?
Some services have extension numbers to the girls, so if you had a good time, don’t hang up straight away, say thanks, and ask them if they have an extension number.
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